Plan and prepare
Before you begin clearing the physical clutter, itโs important to de-clutter your mind and get focused. Take one or two minutes to create a plan. โClose your eyes and tell me what words come to mind,โ Holly Hitchcock Graff, CPO, PCC, founder of Clutter Control Angels, tells clients. โDo you see clutter, stressful, overwhelming? Now close your eyes and think about what you want to seeโfor example, relaxing, a place to read, a place the family can come together.โ This will help you slow down, take a breath, and get started. These are myths about ADHD it’s easy to get wrong.
Make to-do lists, not wish lists
To-do lists are great organizational tools, but only if theyโre realistic. Donโt overdo it; try to set small goals by jotting down no more than five tasks. The experts at ADDitude, a magazine for those with ADHD, recommend writing on index cards and using big, bold letters. Once youโve completed those first five tasks, flip the card over, and create a new to-do list. Here are sneaky reasons you never finish your to-do list.
Start with 15 minutes
Setting a time limit for tasksโwhether cleaning up after dinner or organizing a cabinet drawerโis a smart time management strategy for anyone with ADHD. Graff also recommends what she calls โstaying in the magic circleโ to help you stay focused. โPut your hands to the side and imagine a circle around you; thatโs your magic circle and donโt jump out for 15 minutes,โ she says. For example, if youโre cleaning your kitchen countertop, start by tackling one small area, and don’t move on until it’s done or your 15 minutes is up.
Invest in a good timer
ADHD symptoms often make it difficult to predict how much time has passed, how long tasks will take, and to evaluate where you are and what still needs to get done, Ari Tuckman, PsyD, a clinical psychologist in West Chester, Pennsylvania. and author of More Attention, Less Deficit, told everydayhealth.com. To the rescue: a good visual timer. Graff recommends the Time Timer, which looks like an oven timer, but has a red disc that covers the face of the clock; the red diminishes as time passes. โJust avoid a timer that ticksโthat can drive you crazy,โ she says.
Stick with sticky notes
With ADHD, itโs easy to get distracted halfway through and wander out of the room before finishing the task. The solution: stick a Post-It note (Graff loves the six-inch ones!) outside of your door or in the room where you tend to wander to most (i.e. the kitchen). Write, โHas it been 15 minutes? Go back!,โ she says. โThis will keep you on track.โ
Eliminate morning chaos
Getting up and getting everyone out the door (and on time) is particularly challenging with ADHD. Aim to get organized the night beforeโset out clothes, make lunches, pack backpacks or briefcases, etc.โand place any items youโll need (keys, umbrella, wallet, cell phone charger) near the front door. You may even consider creating an area or โlaunch padโ near the door with cubbies, pegs, hooks, and containers. Graff also recommends hanging up a family calendar in a central spot.ย To make breakfast a no brainer, here’s how to organize your pantry. And an organized medicine cabinet cuts down on bathroom time.
Stock up on supplies
Before tackling a messy closet, drawer, attic, or garage, make sure you have these essentials: heavy-duty black bags for trash (once it goes in, you can no longer see it and change your mind), white bags for donations, and a box for miscellaneous items or those that belong in another room of the house. โHow often do we stop what weโre doing to take an item to the bathroomโand then weโre outside washing the car and checking the mail,โ Graff says, laughing. Here are things in your closet you can feel free to toss.
Make maintenance a family affair
Every night after dinner, recruit your family to do a 10-minute pick-up. And donโt just tell the kids to โpick up their toys,โ Graff notes. Say โpick up all of the matchbox cars and put them in a bin, or pick up all of the books and put them in the basket.โ Keep it simple and specific.
Clean in chunks
This is especially true when cleaning out a closet, Graff says. People tend to take everything out of their closet and toss it on their bedsโโand then they have nowhere to sleep for two weeks until they get it done,โ she says. Instead, start on one side and work in six-inch intervalsโand start tossing and sortingโand then you can stop at any point without having a huge mess.
Stop paper before it starts
Donโt let those bills pile up.ย โSort, toss, act on, or file,โ Graff says.ย Set up a recycle area and shredder, and immediately dump all junk mail before it ends up on the counter or table. And find a filing system that works for you, she adds, whether alphabetically, by category (medical, auto insurance, mortgage, etc.), or another method that makes sense.ย Here, other advice professional organizers won’t tell you for free.
Tidy up your desk
Before leaving for the day, take five minutes to toss any trash, organize your paperwork, and straighten up your desk. When you arrive the next morning, youโll be able to start the day with a clearer workstation and mindset. Here are things you should never keep on your desk.