Go to bed later
I was giving a lecture in Florida and a woman was worried because she woke up every day at 4 a.m. and couldn’t get back to sleep. But when I asked her what time she went to bed, she said 8 p.m. If you go to bed at 8 p.m. and wake up at 4 a.m., you don’t have insomnia; you’re just going to bed too early.
Use a pad and pen to calm a racing mind
Write down your worries and how you’re going to address them tomorrow. Then try a mental exercise to occupy your brain, like counting up by sevens or thinking of fruits and vegetables that start with the letter B.
Get kids and pets out of your bed
It’s tough to tell patients to get their pets and their children out of their beds, but they’re a big reason people aren’t sleeping well. One couple I treated had a 13-year-old who was still sleeping in their bed!
If you can’t sleep, don’t just lie there
Instead, get out of bed and do something that’s relaxing but boring until you start to feel drowsy. Read a book, turn on the TV, do a Sudoku puzzle, or work on a jigsaw. The goal is to get your mind off the fact that you can’t sleep.
Sources:
Board-certified sleep specialists Stephanie Silberman, PhD, in Fort Lauderdale, Florida; Muhammad Najjar, MD, at Northshore Sleep Medicine in Evanston, Illinois; Meir H. Kryger, MD, former chair of the National Sleep Foundation; and Michael Breus, PhD, author of Good Night: The Sleep Doctor’s 4-Week Program to Better Sleep and Better Health